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    It's my pleasure to Introduce to you the following Advisor as the
    Highlighted Advise of this Month.   

    This month features                      Fiona is not only a very trusted and
    honest Advisor, she is also a very close personal friend of mine.  I
    myself  have received many readings from Fiona over the years.  If
    you're looking for someone that is extremely accurate, ethical, and
    truly cares about you and your situation,  please don't hesitate to
    contact Fiona.        
            

                                           Fiona Beck











    Thanks to Kathy for giving us the opportunity to tell clients a
    little more about ourselves.

    I am Fiona, I live in London , England with two of my three
    sons.  When I was a child I had imaginary friends.  But to me
    they were very real.  As I got older I seemed to be more
    perceptive that others, less concerned with the day to day
    comings and goings and more aware of what was under the
    surface.  I guess that made me a pretty odd child and I was
    always quite happy with my own company and didn’t need a
    crowd of people around me. In fact I avoided crowds and still do.

    I feel that my ability or 'gift' was always there but it was harsh
    events in my life that forced me to explore it further. I think this
    is a common theme among people in this line of work, we have
    such capacity for empathy because was have experienced huge
    heartbreak, loss and pain.

    I feel that we are all on a journey of spiritual growth and
    personal development, and for that reason, not every psychic is
    going to be right for every person. I would call myself a 'bigger
    picture' psychic.  If we imagine that we are on a road called
    'growth', at the beginning of that road we ask questions about
    what lies on the surface.  If the reading is relevant to a
    relationship, we may ask if and when someone will call, if and
    when they will come back to us.  When I am asked these
    questions the first thing I do is encourage the client to focus less
    on if someone will come back, and more on why they left.  This
    requires moving a little further down that road, letting go  of
    'today' and examining if you are on the right path to get to your
    desired destination.

    You may ask 'when will he call?' and the psychic may say 'next
    Tuesday' and may well be spot on, but that doesn’t solve the
    issue of why there was a period of silence and why he stopped
    calling in the first place. So next Tuesday he calls, all is well for
    a few weeks and then guess what?  He backs off AGAIN.  You
    then find yourself calling the psychic again and asking when
    hes going to call.  All the while you are being hurt and
    emotionally drained and not moving along  that path.  You get
    stuck on a hamster wheel you saw on the side of the road!

    Very often people look for a reading to tell them that all will be
    well and become angry with the psychic if that’s not what they
    hear, they are resistant to growth and want to remain exactly as
    they are and have someone still tell them that all will be will
    and they will get their happy ever after.

    Psychics don’t CREATE the future, so don’t get mad if they are
    not telling you what you wanted to hear!  Take it as a
    opportunity to look at YOUR actions.  A good psychic wont just
    give you bad news, they will tell you how you can change the
    patterns and cycles that have trapped you and show you that
    when YOU change the music the whole dance changes!  Isn't
    that FAR more helpful than telling you that someone will call
    next week?  Better to have to the potential to change the
    direction of the whole journey and not just what happens now.

    Always be aware that the most powerful person in your life is
    YOU.  You set the rules and create the boundaries by which
    others can interact with you.  If you are being abused and you
    are an adult, then the opportunity for growth lies with YOU.  
    When we are afraid of losing someone we care about we stay in
    often terrible situations.   We get readings, and hope that the
    other person will change, and we want to know WHEN.  The
    sad fact is that as long as you remain with them and ALLOW
    them to mistreat you then you are GIVING THEM
    PERMISSION TO DO SO.  What incentive do they have to
    grow and overcome their issues?  They can behave as they do
    and still have you.  Not only are you stuck on your own path but
    you are allowing them to remain stuck on theirs.  When you
    think about it, that isn't love, its DEPENDENCY.

    Now if all of this resonates with you, let me take you to the next
    level.  Lets say you have read this, and understand what you
    need to do and how your actions have contributed to where you
    find yourself.  That’s wonderful!  But the test is this - are you
    going to do this work because you love yourself, want to put
    yourself first, and want to change the pattern of all your
    relationships from now on - OR - are you going to say 'Wow,
    Raven that made so much sense to me I am so glad I spoke to
    you, now tell me, if I do all this, WHEN WILL HE CALL
    ME?   ( Raven bangs head against wall!).

    If you remember only one thing you read here, make it this.  
    LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.  When you grow, you do it for
    YOU, not to influence someone else's free will.  God doesn’t do
    'deals'  It isn't a case of saying 'Ok God, I'll do what I need to
    do to learn this lesson as long as I can have this person at the
    end of it.'   NO DEAL.

    When you stop enabling someone to treat you as they do, then
    they are triggered to grow, they can no longer interact with you
    as things were because YOU are no longer the same person.  
    Your growth becomes the catalyst for theirs, but they always
    have free will, can avoid growth ( as you once did!) and may not
    appreciate your new approach.  THIS IS NO REASON FOR
    YOU TO STAY AS YOU ARE!

    Thank you for reading this article, I look forward to getting to
    know you all better.

    I am available for readings on Liveperson, Keen, Bitwine and
    privately over the phone or on MSN or AOL.  I am also a
    certified Theta healer and do face to face readings in the North
    West London area.  

    Bright Blessings,

    Fiona











~Advisor of the Month~